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YOU ARE VALUABLE

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We all are valuable but most of us are oblivious to makes us valuable.   The understanding of what makes us valuable is relevant to become the person we are created to be. What distinguishes the great from the mediocrities is the recognition of what makes them valuable and growing from that place. When you can’t see what makes you valuable, the thought of you being a no body when in reality you’re somebody relevant in the society becomes what holds you down from ever reaching your peak in life.   Knowing you’re valuable is not convincing enough when what makes you valuable is unknown and this is why it becomes difficult to believe you’re valuable when the truth is everyone is valuable.   You don’t need others to tell you that you’re valuable because people can’t see what makes you valuable, they can only see what makes you valuable to them which may not be the ingredient.   To become aware of that which makes your valuable is to not look on what’s on the outside, eve...

POWER IN POSITION

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Power brings fear to the people around. When you are powerful, you become fearful to the people that have less power. Power is measured by position, those in high positions like the manager of a company have more power than the receptionist and whenever someone gives you his power, he has given you his position. This can also be explained in a case whereby you get promoted to the position of a manager which means that you now have the power of a manager. Without position, power is not felt.    Everyone have a position in life and when you live outside of your position, you miss the opportunity to activate your power. We came to the world to live in our position but because we cannot discern our position, we live outside of it. Do you know your position? Because when we do not live in our position, we become powerless in life and being powerless starves your life of its greatness because the level of your greatness is directly connected to the level of your power. Each on...

THE BIRTHMOTHER OF A DREAM

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" If you don't know who you are, any dream achieved outside of who you are will only limit your life from being maximized" The fact that many of us are thriving hard to be someone in life, have a better life or live in a better condition is the reason why I want to write this article. The uncertainty of life is  the one ahead of us that we can’t see and because we don’t know how our life ahead is going to turn out, we are left with the present time to do all that we can do to make sure that it turns out better than where we are now. The dream is just a hope of what we wish to have our life turn out and so with this we do everything within our power to make sure that we can get our life ahead of us to turn out like our dream. Every day with this dream in mind, we work till we are burnt out, sacrificing all we have to have our dream realized. This uncertainty is a petrifying thing, not being able to see what happens in the future of your life makes us not sure if...

WHO ARE YOU?

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We are living our life in the person we become. We become a teacher, doctor, lawyer or preacher and each one of these person we become have different life. We go through academics or other means to become the person we want to be. We get taught things that will build us into a doctor or preacher. The reason why we chase after becoming is because we do not know who we are, we try to fit into a person through becoming hoping that the person we become will come to be who we are. We are trying to fit into different kinds of people because of the unawareness of who we are. There is no room for becoming when you know who you are, all you have to do is just be who you are which means that you do not have to go through academics or others means, you do not have to be taught anything. If who you are is a preacher, what this implies is that you have the knowledge and capability of preaching, all you have to do is tap into it. This is what we know as innate potential, when you use your innate...

HOW WE LOOK

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We do everything to maintain how we look. So much resource, money is forked out on the way we look, trying to make our outlook perfect hoping by so doing we are making who we are perfect which in reality is absolute baloney because your outlook and who you are, are two separate discussions. Living in a world where people get to judge, select who they want to be with or marry by the outlook has led us to indoctrinate the belief of our outlook being so much relevant that for most, it has become their ultimate goal in life. I am not in any way trying to tag maintaining outlook to be a bad thing but when it is emphasized on more in our life, it becomes the thing that stops us from really concentrating on developing who we are. The truth of the matter is everyone tries to have a good outlook but those who are found chasing their dreams do not put so much emphasis on their outlook because they are busy developing who they are. Your outlook will not realize your dream, who you are will. If ...

VULNERABILITY

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As we live as we grow, we see life different from ours when we meet people from different culture, race and nationality. Watching the beauty painted all over the many life we are welcomed to be a part of and how perfect we perceive them to be.  We compare our life with theirs and we become aware of our deficits that separate ours from theirs and we attach our deficiency to life like poor life, unhappy life, boring life and we compare our appearance with theirs and discover our imperfection. What we see outside of us has made us feel weird, alienated, apart from the world as everyone we sight seems to be without a spot of problem, wrongs, imperfection or deficiency in their life.   The extinction of vulnerability is killing others who can’t facade it and their eyes pull the trigger. Social network facilitates this affair as Instagram especially, is loaded with posts of people with their perfect self and life. The reality of not seeing anyone in our same kind of problem, i...

SELF DISCOVERY

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  We know so much about everything happening outside of us but little of what’s taking place on the inside, we are so inquisitive about people and never paying attention to ourselves. As we begin to live in the ages of life, our physical appearance changes because it knows that there is something more to it that must be reached and the only way it can become the more is by growing. Growing refers to the change that comes with you becoming the more you perceive of yourself and so it is possible to change and not grow when you aren’t aware of the more to you than you know. Iphone 7 grows into Iphone 8 because it has become the more of itself and so there is a change in the appearance to validate that. The change we experience on the outside is a validation that we are indeed growing but nowadays we want to look more rather than be more, being pretentious in our speaking, actions and dressings. To change to what you see on the outside is to only look more, to change to the person ...