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YOU ARE VALUABLE

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We all are valuable but most of us are oblivious to makes us valuable.   The understanding of what makes us valuable is relevant to become the person we are created to be. What distinguishes the great from the mediocrities is the recognition of what makes them valuable and growing from that place. When you can’t see what makes you valuable, the thought of you being a no body when in reality you’re somebody relevant in the society becomes what holds you down from ever reaching your peak in life.   Knowing you’re valuable is not convincing enough when what makes you valuable is unknown and this is why it becomes difficult to believe you’re valuable when the truth is everyone is valuable.   You don’t need others to tell you that you’re valuable because people can’t see what makes you valuable, they can only see what makes you valuable to them which may not be the ingredient.   To become aware of that which makes your valuable is to not look on what’s on the outside, eve...

POWER IN POSITION

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Power brings fear to the people around. When you are powerful, you become fearful to the people that have less power. Power is measured by position, those in high positions like the manager of a company have more power than the receptionist and whenever someone gives you his power, he has given you his position. This can also be explained in a case whereby you get promoted to the position of a manager which means that you now have the power of a manager. Without position, power is not felt.    Everyone have a position in life and when you live outside of your position, you miss the opportunity to activate your power. We came to the world to live in our position but because we cannot discern our position, we live outside of it. Do you know your position? Because when we do not live in our position, we become powerless in life and being powerless starves your life of its greatness because the level of your greatness is directly connected to the level of your power. Each on...

HOW WE LOOK

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We do everything to maintain how we look. So much resource, money is forked out on the way we look, trying to make our outlook perfect hoping by so doing we are making who we are perfect which in reality is absolute baloney because your outlook and who you are, are two separate discussions. Living in a world where people get to judge, select who they want to be with or marry by the outlook has led us to indoctrinate the belief of our outlook being so much relevant that for most, it has become their ultimate goal in life. I am not in any way trying to tag maintaining outlook to be a bad thing but when it is emphasized on more in our life, it becomes the thing that stops us from really concentrating on developing who we are. The truth of the matter is everyone tries to have a good outlook but those who are found chasing their dreams do not put so much emphasis on their outlook because they are busy developing who they are. Your outlook will not realize your dream, who you are will. If ...

OUR PLACE

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While I gazed at the birds in the air and thought of the fishes in the sea, I became aware that this two were living in an entirely different place but definitely in the right place. I knew that the reason why they have different place is coming from the way they are which is formed by their difference in potential for the bird is with strong wings and fish with fins and so it is the potential that takes them into a different place. I realized that each one of us according to our potential have a place meant for us to live our life at. This place is unique to us and cannot be occupied by any other person because of our unique potential that gives us the access into this place. Everything we ever wish for in life is at this place but the problem is we are unaware of our place and we walk to the end of life and never have the opportunity to live our life there. The inability to discern this place traps us in the wrong place. Many of us are living our life in the wrong place and you go t...

RELATIONSHIP: PEOPLE LIVE INSIDE

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As I began to understand relationship and how it works, I realized that relationship makes us a house and the strength of our bonding is tested on the inside. People before they become a part of our life, see us and define us by how we are and when they finally get welcomed into our life, they define us by who we are. This means that there is a person on the outside that is not the total identity of him or her and you will wrongly judge a person when you have knowledge of how he/she is only. The how we are, is the person we see when someone appears before us and the who we are, is the person we see in his/her attitude and the way he/she treats others. Everyone is found with stuff like make up, plastic surgery, body building, sexy clothes or whatever that we can embellish the outside with in some areas of our life that we’ve not taking the time to beautify the inside person we are. Our embellishment of the outside plays a role to bring people but it doesn’t guarantee their stay, the sta...