WHY WE STAY COVERED

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Many of us are found living our life in a person that is not truly us. If we should sincerely scrutinize ourselves,we will discover that in certain areas of our life we live as someone other than ourselves. The idea of staying covered is been embedded as a thought in our heads by the difficulty we face when we are engulfed by the desire to reveal who we are and how we are or we do not reveal who we are because we want to be the person that is welcomed into the life of the people in our world. Every time we find ourselves around people, we are left with two choices to either exhibit our true self or the self that is the most impressionable to them. The difficulty in which we face being open is caused by the people we associate with, when we do not sense being truly loved by them, it puts us off in coming out of our hidden spot because we are quailed as to how they will react if we come out of our disguised body, the only time we surely are certain about receiving a positive reaction is when we really know that they are truly in love with us and so the difficulty is established by the uncertainty of the reaction to our openness. The desire of many is to come out because of the loneliness the person feels, no friend in his world and the idea of the person wanting to live the life of the someone he hides in.
       Sometimes it is the detrimental comments spat out by the people in our world and the repulsive reaction we got when we tried in the past to be opened. We become petrified to ever do it again, guarding our heart from breaking anymore so we never really give our heart because giving our heart compels us to be open which we do not want to indulge in and so people are in a relationship with someone but certainly not us and we put less of commitment into it.  And often times it is because we do not think we are that person that everybody will want, love, be happy with and so we try to be someone that can get all of this because no one likes to be hated or alone but with this action we engage in, dissuades us from being truly loved because a love is only true when it is for the person hiding.
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