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RAPE being bigger than forceful sex

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The invasion of what is yours by someone that has bypass seeking permission from you and therefore reap you of your power over your possession.  That feeling of being out of control and powerless in that moment is RAPE. The form the invader appears in is what causes one to differ from the other. RAPE is larger than a situation whereby one forcefully sleeps with the other, it rears its ugly head in unequal love between couples, in an unhealthy relationship and in your experience with life itself. In a forceful sex situation, the invader is a ‘ must satisfy hunger for sex by all means ’ and the possessions it invade are the body, soul and mind inflicting pain on each one the way it knows how. In an unequal love, the invader is the difference gap between the two love inflicting sorrow and grieve in the mind and soul of the one with more and the greater the gap the more the affliction. In an unhealthy relationship, the invaders are cheats, abusers and hatred inflicting pain and sorrow i

YOU ARE VALUABLE

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We all are valuable but most of us are oblivious to makes us valuable.   The understanding of what makes us valuable is relevant to become the person we are created to be. What distinguishes the great from the mediocrities is the recognition of what makes them valuable and growing from that place. When you can’t see what makes you valuable, the thought of you being a no body when in reality you’re somebody relevant in the society becomes what holds you down from ever reaching your peak in life.   Knowing you’re valuable is not convincing enough when what makes you valuable is unknown and this is why it becomes difficult to believe you’re valuable when the truth is everyone is valuable.   You don’t need others to tell you that you’re valuable because people can’t see what makes you valuable, they can only see what makes you valuable to them which may not be the ingredient.   To become aware of that which makes your valuable is to not look on what’s on the outside, everything that makes

POWER IN POSITION

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Power brings fear to the people around. When you are powerful, you become fearful to the people that have less power. Power is measured by position, those in high positions like the manager of a company have more power than the receptionist and whenever someone gives you his power, he has given you his position. This can also be explained in a case whereby you get promoted to the position of a manager which means that you now have the power of a manager. Without position, power is not felt.    Everyone have a position in life and when you live outside of your position, you miss the opportunity to activate your power. We came to the world to live in our position but because we cannot discern our position, we live outside of it. Do you know your position? Because when we do not live in our position, we become powerless in life and being powerless starves your life of its greatness because the level of your greatness is directly connected to the level of your power. Each one of us h

THE BIRTHMOTHER OF A DREAM

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" If you don't know who you are, any dream achieved outside of who you are will only limit your life from being maximized" The fact that many of us are thriving hard to be someone in life, have a better life or live in a better condition is the reason why I want to write this article. The uncertainty of life is  the one ahead of us that we can’t see and because we don’t know how our life ahead is going to turn out, we are left with the present time to do all that we can do to make sure that it turns out better than where we are now. The dream is just a hope of what we wish to have our life turn out and so with this we do everything within our power to make sure that we can get our life ahead of us to turn out like our dream. Every day with this dream in mind, we work till we are burnt out, sacrificing all we have to have our dream realized. This uncertainty is a petrifying thing, not being able to see what happens in the future of your life makes us not sure if

WHO ARE YOU?

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We are living our life in the person we become. We become a teacher, doctor, lawyer or preacher and each one of these person we become have different life. We go through academics or other means to become the person we want to be. We get taught things that will build us into a doctor or preacher. The reason why we chase after becoming is because we do not know who we are, we try to fit into a person through becoming hoping that the person we become will come to be who we are. We are trying to fit into different kinds of people because of the unawareness of who we are. There is no room for becoming when you know who you are, all you have to do is just be who you are which means that you do not have to go through academics or others means, you do not have to be taught anything. If who you are is a preacher, what this implies is that you have the knowledge and capability of preaching, all you have to do is tap into it. This is what we know as innate potential, when you use your innate

HOW WE LOOK

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We do everything to maintain how we look. So much resource, money is forked out on the way we look, trying to make our outlook perfect hoping by so doing we are making who we are perfect which in reality is absolute baloney because your outlook and who you are, are two separate discussions. Living in a world where people get to judge, select who they want to be with or marry by the outlook has led us to indoctrinate the belief of our outlook being so much relevant that for most, it has become their ultimate goal in life. I am not in any way trying to tag maintaining outlook to be a bad thing but when it is emphasized on more in our life, it becomes the thing that stops us from really concentrating on developing who we are. The truth of the matter is everyone tries to have a good outlook but those who are found chasing their dreams do not put so much emphasis on their outlook because they are busy developing who they are. Your outlook will not realize your dream, who you are will. If

OUR PLACE

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While I gazed at the birds in the air and thought of the fishes in the sea, I became aware that this two were living in an entirely different place but definitely in the right place. I knew that the reason why they have different place is coming from the way they are which is formed by their difference in potential for the bird is with strong wings and fish with fins and so it is the potential that takes them into a different place. I realized that each one of us according to our potential have a place meant for us to live our life at. This place is unique to us and cannot be occupied by any other person because of our unique potential that gives us the access into this place. Everything we ever wish for in life is at this place but the problem is we are unaware of our place and we walk to the end of life and never have the opportunity to live our life there. The inability to discern this place traps us in the wrong place. Many of us are living our life in the wrong place and you go t